So disappointed in myself

I was going to write about self criticism but erased the whole post. Nobody wants to hear about my pity party. I would like to say I can get past feeling crappy but I really struggle with it. Instead I want to hear from real women. From women who have had kids and have a hard time feeling great about their body even if there is skin hanging down and their tummy isn't flat like it used to be. So if you are out there please drop me a line.